Off-Limits with Ellen Roers
Welcome to Off-Limits with Ellen Roers. The podcast and platform where nothing is off-limits, and everything is elevating.
We’re here for the ones building something meaningful. Whether that’s a business, a bold mindset, a second act, or a soul-led life.
From money mindset and legacy building to balancing masculine and feminine energies and starting over. These are the conversations that matter. The ones that light you up from the inside out.
I’m Ellen, speaker, RTT therapist, Nurse by Trade, Realtor, and founder of Elevated Living. I help you grow through what you’re going through, and remind you that you’re not behind. You’re becoming.
Beyond the podcast, I offer 1:1 consulting, RTT sessions, and a concierge approach to elevated living, from real estate and relocation to essential residential and business services that help you build a legacy.
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Off-Limits with Ellen Roers
🎙️ Ep 38: Aligned or Misaligned in Love? 20 Questions for Dating, Marriage, and Singlehood
In this episode of Off-Limits, I share 20 questions I now ask myself quietly and internally before letting someone into my life. These are not first-date questions, and they’re not meant to interrogate anyone. They’re meant to help you stay aligned with yourself.
While I share these reflections through the lens of dating and singlehood, these questions truly apply to everyone. Whether you’re single, dating, married, partnered, divorced, or simply in relationship with yourself, alignment matters.
I’ve grouped the questions into themes including intention, boundaries, emotional availability, identity, growth, and solitude. Together, they offer a grounded framework for reflecting on how you show up in relationships and whether you’re choosing from peace or pressure.
I also share why I value singlehood as a season of alignment rather than avoidance, and how clarity can often be kinder than chemistry.
A downloadable version of all 20 questions is available in the show notes for reflection or journaling. You can revisit them monthly or quarterly as a personal check-in.
I also give a preview of the next episode, where I’ll be interviewing fitness expert Joey Atlas about body confidence, strength, and navigating physical changes in your 40s and beyond.
This episode is an invitation to slow down, reflect honestly, and choose alignment over rushing.
Find the reflective ?'s here: https://ellenroers.com/f/aligned-or-misaligned-in-love-20-questions-to-ask-yourself
Lots of Love,
Ellen Roers
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